But I don’t want to fall into a Daddy/Boy dynamic accidentally because of money and “status.” How do I date him like I would someone closer to my age and income? I don’t mind if we agree that’s what we are doing. Do I need to fight that feeling or lean into it? It’s not a dynamic he said he wants. I feel like I’m out of my league here! I really like him and he seems to really like me but I’m struggling to fight feeling like this is a “Daddy and His Boy” situation. He has offered to cover as much of the costs as he needs to. To get to the point… he makes a lot more money than I do. It’s partly a work trip for him, but we will take a vacation together after the work part of the trip for him is over. Now we’re planning a trip to see each other. We have a lot of similar interests and work in parallel fields.
We were visiting the same city for work and met on an app and went on a series of amazing dates. I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe.
